Friday, February 6, 2009

A little about the Love And Logic Technique by Jim and Charles Fay

Love and Logic Starts with a Hug

by Jim Fay and Charles Fay, Ph.D.

LOVE

It takes a great deal of love to…
· Find the positives in our kids when they act poorly
· Hug them before we ask them about their homework
· Set limits without anger, lectures, or threats
· Hold them accountable for their poor decisions by providing empathy first and consequences second

LOGIC

When we give this special kind of love, a wise type of logic grows in their minds:
When I make poor decisions, it makes my life pretty sad. I wonder how my next decision will affect my life?



For more info go to: http://www.loveandlogic.com

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